I have worn the same two bracelets for thirty years. This is the one that finally joined them.
by linda parker · mount pleasant, south carolina
I am 68 and I can count my everyday jewellery on one hand. My wedding ring, my watch, and two bracelets I have owned for thirty years. Nothing new has earned a place in that little rotation for decades, and plenty has tried. Then I sat with my foils in at the hairdresser’s, staring at the wrist of the woman in the next chair, and three weeks later I am writing a letter about a bracelet.
It is called the Vintage Bird Bracelet, from Brooks & Bennett Newport, a small american boutique that has been quietly dressing women our age for a few years now. I bought it fully expecting it to look cheap when it arrived. It did not, and I wrote to the boutique to tell them why, and they asked if they could put my letter up for other women to read. So here it is, the six things this one gets right.
Bracelets, if you have shopped for one lately, come in two piles. The first pile is costume jewellery made for somebody forty years younger, all glitter and dangling charms, the sort of thing that looks silly next to a 68 year old wrist. The second pile is so plain and apologetic it may as well not be there at all.
Too much, or nothing. I stopped accepting that a woman has to choose, and this little thing is the proof I was right to.
The three little birds — detail without noise
Soft cord, not clattering metal
It goes with everything I own
You cannot feel it on
A proper clasp, and it fits any wrist
It makes a present with a story
The Vintage Bird Bracelet, against the bracelets you have been buying
Glittery costume pieces made for somebody half your
age
Heavy bangles that rattle and catch on knitwear
Fiddly tie-on cords you cannot fasten alone
One size that fits nobody properly
Forgotten in the drawer within a month
A quiet vintage-style charm people lean in to look at
Soft rounded cord that sits flat and silent on the wrist
A proper clasp that does up in a second
A short extender chain, so it fits the wrist you actually
have
The one that stays on